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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 00:07

How does one succeed in life?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What steps have you taken to stop being a targeted individual by gang stalkers? What has worked, what would you have done differently?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How do people move on so quickly? I’m still sprung over someone I was dating and he found someone else so fast. I feel hurt because I’m still head over heels over him while he’s out enjoying his life with someone new

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.